Relationship ABC: Plans

A relationship is a constant change of plans.
When you're single you are plenty of dreams. You wish to be socially active,  have plenty of friends, invest in your career, study, travel, etc.
You even dream about finding the prince of your dreams (ladies?). Until you find this guy that changes your life.

Life lately #1

# new job, routine, missing home, my ex (again).

I'm going through a very difficult time at the moment.
I got this new job in the cake department of a party shop which kind of inspires me to bake. Also my team is ok, I have a good time with my colleagues, so I'm happy. However my workplace is far away from home, and I don't get paid as much as I would like. No good. So I'm worried and looking for another job.

Also it has been difficult to conciliate everything. Habibi too, he is not in a very good moment of his life. So between both jobs, home and other activities, we end up not having time for each other. Actually we don't have time for anything, we have to pick the little opportunities to actually do something. Well, big mess!

Relationship ABC - the 2nd chance

Nobody said it's easy to keep a relationship growing long and healthy. There are moments where you will definitely question your relationship and your future together (or alone).

If you're just in a let's-get-it-going-until-I-don't-like-it-anymore kind of relationship, then you will give up and split in the first setback. On the other hand, if you are in a serious and adult relationship with someone that you respect and respects you back, then that someone will definitely answer to your needs and make you feel loved; for that reason you will think twice before any dramatic change because you don't want to hurt or disrespect the person. Specially if you are living together.